I naively thought that following people meant I was really going to “follow” them and actually read what they write. But no – now I am learning Twitter is basically a way to acquire real estate space on the Web by having your name showing up on other people’s Twitter page. All along it seems I wrongly believed it was about networking, connecting and communicating – not real estate.
I thought I would choose to follow some people because I actually want to know what they think. But strangely this appears to be an unwise decision. I read you are supposed to follow high level re-tweeters (people who will transfer your own messages to their network of followers), that you should follow people with large groups of followers expecting they will follow you back and become your ambassadors. Again I have been doing this all wrong since I did not choose who I follow according to these criteria – nor did I expect them to follow me back. For example I am following @jowyang and @mitchjoel, and they are not following me back. Why should they? They write about social networking – a topic of interest to me, but I write mostly about our music business, a topic probably not of interest to them.
Unfollowing people – now that’s really wrong! I actually un-followed few people because I was not getting much out of their Tweets. I even thought of unfollowing top guru @guykawasaki, a big mistake I am told. But why is that a mistake exactly? Most of his posts are just not grabbing my attention. And I am sure he’s never read any of my posts. Nothing personal – I just want to manage my social networking time as best as possible. But I am told I should never do this – that I should never unfollow anyone, that it is very rude.
I am also advised to never bother to read any tweets unless it comes in the form of private messages or @ messages addressed specifically to me. Otherwise I will waste too much time. I must only respond to Direct messages. So is it all about Me, Me and Me – and not Them or Us as a community? Ha! I have been definitely wrong here too. I have been reading many tweet messages from people I follow. Damn.
I have been using the private messaging option with some success only to learn it is a better strategy to reply always with @ because visitors will look at my Twitter page and will see I am an active community member if they notice lots of @ replies. But they won’t know it if I reply with a “d” for Direct which is private. Oh! I see. Arrrgh! Wrong again.
And one last thing… I read you should always use a picture of yourself as your avatar. People, I am told, want to see real people – not an organization logo. Since I signed up as an organization I thought I would use our easily recognizable logo and there would be no mistake in identifying immediately where the message is coming from. That would also eventually allow others within our organization to Tweet as well. But I must be doing it all wrong.
So what do you think? Is there any right way to do this?
My intention is to use Twitter as a useful and direct business communication tool, to respond personally and interact genuinely with individuals as a person, like I have always done in all my businesses.
Is Twitter a good option for this? Should one get 2 accounts – one for business newscast and one for personal interactions?
Twitter…
A networking tool or Internet Real Estate?
Should everyone follow everyone back or not?
Unfollowing – is it rude?
Private messaging – when is it most appropriate?
A human face or a logo for avatars ?
Thank you for your feedback,
Gilles Arbour
@premiumbeat
PS: See my previous post about Twitter
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